Welcome to my viscera.

May 24

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TONIGHT! Come to the MAKE-OUT ROOM at 3225 22nd st, SF, for the Lusty Lady Summer of Lust Launch Party!

Doors at 7, State of the Lusty address at 7:30, PARTY at 9! DJs, Drink Specials, VIP Lusty Dances all night long! 21+, $5 cover.

Come see me, get a dance, and support the Historic Lusty Lady Theater!

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May 23

“We are not anti-women or women’s rights. We are pro-life, pro-women, pro-family, pro-adoption. Anti-death, anti-destitution, anti-dissolution, anti-abortion. We desire to abolish the legal practice of human abortion, not punish the women already abused by its legality. We desire to confront and destroy the entire system of female subjugation and objectification which slyly encourages and often attends abortion’s unbridled occurrence.” —

Abolish Human Abortion (via emilye)

We are not anti-women or women’s rights.

Yet  you  advocate  for  forced  pregnancies.

Also,  not  just  cis-women  get  abortions.

We are pro-life,

Abortion  is  higher  where  it  is  illegal.

Source  One

Source  Two

Source  Three

pro-women

Why  would  you  force  them  to  remain  pregnant  against  their  will?

pro-family

But  you’re  against  family  planning.

pro-adoption

You  believe  in  PASS,  yet  you  never  point  out  the  effects  adoption  has  on  the  birth  parent,  which  is  often  negative.

Anti-death

Murder  is  the  leading  cause  of  death  in  pregnant  people.

[Source  1]

[Source  2]

Illegal  abortion  kills  68,000  to  70,000  people  a  year.

anti-destitution

If  you’re  anti-poverty,  why  vote  for  politicians  that  are  anti-food  stamps  and  anti-universal  healthcare?

anti-dissolution

You’re  anti-divorce,  as  in  you  want  people  to  be  stuck  in  bad relationships?  Sure  the  divorce  rates  should  go  down,  but  at  least  people  aren’t  stuck  in  bad  relationships.  Unwanted  pregnancies can  cause  bad  relationships.

We desire to abolish the legal practice of human abortion

So  people  can  get  it  illegally  via  paint  thinner  and  bicycle  spokes.

not punish the women already abused by its legality.

No,  abortion  doesn’t  cause  breast  cancer.

PASS  does  not  exist. 

[Source  1]  [Source  2]

People  often  report  feeling  “relief  and  happiness”  after an  abortion.

Guttamacher’s  Statement  On  This

We desire to confront and destroy the entire system of female subjugation

Abortion  and  women*’s  rights can’t  be  separated.  You  are  harming  people  when  you  force  them  go  through  an  unwanted pregnancy.

and objectification which slyly encourages and often attends abortion’s unbridled occurrence.

A  woman*  having  consensual  sex  or  doing  consensual  porn/sex  work  is  not  objectification.

which slyly encourages and often attends abortion’s unbridled occurrence.

Because  prostitutes  don’t  deserve  to  die  an  early  death  via  bicycle  spoke  up  the  vagina,  or  any  woman*.

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I would only add that adoption negatively affects the child as well. (Although I can’t pull up stats for that at thing moment). And if you worship the fetus, then your argument for adoption is incongruous at best.

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Bam.

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Alllllll of that.

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“But most of all, stop thinking that what people so loathingly refer to as the “friendzone” is some sort of purgatory women put “nice guys” into. My friendship is not a crappy consolation prize that you’re left with if I deny you a sexual relationship– and my body is not your reward for good behavior.” —

-Taylor Callobre, The “Good Guy” Myth   (via housewifeswag)

Things to remind myself: my friendship has worth even if there is no sex involved.

(Source: alionoftherock, via youdontlooklikeafeminist)

that gaze.

that gaze.

(Source: thechocolatebrigade, via safeword)

I want to taste my cunt on your lips. 

May 22

NVC help?

I really wish there was an easy and succinct way to explain or preface the statement “I felt shitty when you did this thing” in such a way that it is clear that I am NOT saying:

Sometimes ALL I need to say is just “I feel shitty and need support around this emotion from this thing” and maybe find some way to resolve the situation and state needs, without it turning into a blame-battle or guilt-fest. However, especially with cyclically-upsetting interactions (something upsets you and your upset reaction upsets me, etc) it’s really difficult to navigate that without the person expressing shitty feelings upsetting or getting shut down by the other.

Any insights?

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May 19

guys

guys

guys.

I found them.

I found a person whose sexual appetite is as ravenous as mine.

GUYS.

and who also somehow gets through my emotional barriers like a ninja, who I feel safe around, unjudged by, and comfortable talking to.

Who also happens to look not unsimilar to a greek god.

what the fuck, Universe, did I win a prize or something?

May 18

ajacquelineofalltrades:

menshevixen:

bananakarenina:

villa-kulla:

Reporter: I have a question to Robert and to Scarlett. Firstly to Robert, throughout Iron Man 1 and 2, Tony Stark started off as a very egotistical character but learns how to fight as a team. And so how did you approach this role, bearing in mind that kind of maturity as a human being when it comes to the Tony Stark character, and did you learn anything throughout the three movies that you made?
And to Scarlett, to get into shape for Black Widow did you have anything special to do in terms of the diet, like did you have to eat any specific food, or that sort of thing?
Scarlett: How come you get the really interesting existential question, and I get the like, “rabbit food” question?
The respect given to you if you’re a man in the entertainment business, and the respect given to you if you’re a woman in the entertainment business: all perfectly summed up in one idiotically thought out line of questioning.

You know, I always did like Scarlett Johannson.

Dat side-eye.

Let me just hug you forever Miss Johannson.

Just marry me already, Scarlett

ajacquelineofalltrades:

menshevixen:

bananakarenina:

villa-kulla:

Reporter: I have a question to Robert and to Scarlett. Firstly to Robert, throughout Iron Man 1 and 2, Tony Stark started off as a very egotistical character but learns how to fight as a team. And so how did you approach this role, bearing in mind that kind of maturity as a human being when it comes to the Tony Stark character, and did you learn anything throughout the three movies that you made?

And to Scarlett, to get into shape for Black Widow did you have anything special to do in terms of the diet, like did you have to eat any specific food, or that sort of thing?

Scarlett: How come you get the really interesting existential question, and I get the like, “rabbit food” question?


The respect given to you if you’re a man in the entertainment business, and the respect given to you if you’re a woman in the entertainment business: all perfectly summed up in one idiotically thought out line of questioning.

You know, I always did like Scarlett Johannson.

Dat side-eye.

Let me just hug you forever Miss Johannson.

Just marry me already, Scarlett

(via brainsandporn)

“Free speech as a legal concept only guarantees you the right to speak. It doesn’t guarantee you the right to be heard, it doesn’t guarantee you the right to be agreed with, it certainly doesn’t guarantee you the right for your speech to not be challenged by someone else’s speech, and most importantly of all, it doesn’t mean you can’t suffer consequences if and when your free speech is used to cause harm to someone. Which is exactly what sexual harassment, racial slurs, and verbal bigotry are. That’s not censorship. That’s fairness.” —

“Not Okay”: MovieBob on Sexism and Harassment in Nerd Culture. (via jerrymuffinbutt)

always relevant

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